#WhiteWomanPrivilege: Evolution of a Twitter Controversy
#WhiteWomanPrivilege is being the idealized as the epitome of femininity and beauty.
— Auragasmic (@Auragasmic) January 14, 2014
And there you have it, the tweet that launched 3.5 thousand other tweets in just three hours on Tuesday, flapping in the breeze like a little white flag—before quickly being hijacked, though not completely, by racist trolls and clueless braggers alike.
The #WhiteWomanPrivilege hashtag, which had been used before, sporadically, without catching on with such lightning speed, was kicked off this time by @Auragasmic, whose intention, it seems, was to make a statement about being self-aware about the privileged race she belongs to. Her profile says that she’s an “Aspie. INTJ. Feminist. Purveyor of the Socialist agenda & #ProChoice Propaganda. Mouthy Tech Guru. Greyhat. Foreseer of great things.” But even she admits, in a later tweet, that she didn’t foresee the devolving of the #WhiteWomanPrivilege hashtag.
Its fast explosion is not surprising (can you say “hot button,” everyone?). I’m reluctant to even write a word about it, in fact, being a white woman of privilege myself. But I’ll go out on a limb and say that the breakdown in conversation is also not a shocker, but that it’s damn disappointing.
It took just three hours for one woman’s honest observation to be turned into a debate, a parody, a dividing line and a succulent morsel of privilege porn. Why? Because it’s inherent to the topic. When privileged and non-privileged folks discuss said privilege, neither side is going to see it the same way. So it’s going to eventually get heated. And troublesome. And hurtful. And embarrassing.
To wit:
Is this hashtag supposed to make me feel guilty? Because it doesn't. #whitewomanprivilege
— ☀BeachGirl☀ (@DonnaBee511) January 14, 2014
#WhiteWomanPrivilege knowing you will have to pay for college while less qualified blacks get scholarships only they can apply for
— Hans Gruber (@MrHavok1976) January 14, 201
@flipsville The #WhiteWomanPrivilege is about WoC talking about issues they face, it's not a platform for you to butt in about your issues
— Emily Waddell (@callsignemily) January 14, 2014
#WhiteWomanPrivilege IS THINKING PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVELY TWEETING ABOUT ISSUES IN SOCIETY WILL CHANGE SHIT
— †† BLΔCK MΣSSIΔH †† (@BLCKMSSH) January 14, 2014
#WhiteWomanPrivilege is simply knowing your better then your Mexican maid.
— #Awakened (@tourtored1221) January 14, 201
This #WhiteWomanPrivilege is just pointing out different cultural/individual views. I haven't seen 1 example of real societal discrimination
— That Guy T (@MoneyMyPassion) January 14, 2014
And yet… plenty of women of all colors waded into the muck with honest, illuminating thoughts, in spite of what was inevitable.
#WhiteWomanPrivilege not being followed around the store
— The Reeling Passion (@ReviseDevise) January 14, 201
#whitewomanprivilege hires a person of color to watch her children for $8/hour while she "Leans In"
— Andrea Grimes (@andreagrimes) January 14, 2014
GET INTO #whitewomanprivilege NOW EVERYONE. Because it's there. And it's real. And you need to hear it, especially if you're a white woman.
— Valkyrie (@trickycrayon) January 14, 2014
#WhiteWomanPrivilege being able to wear you natural hair without it being looked at as messy, nappy or unprofessional! 💁
— Miss Understood... (@iLashes143) January 14, 2014
#WhiteWomanPrivilege is when the media covers this hashtag and only cites tweets from white women.
— Jessica Valenti (@JessicaValenti) January 14, 201
All of which makes me realize… That maybe it was worth it after all. Because if it makes you think, it makes it worth it, minefield of haters to negotiate or not. So thanks for that, ladies.